[...] Dear magnetic boy you've never been with anyone who doesn't take your shit
You've never been with anyone who's dared to call you on it
I wonder how you'd be if someone were to call you on it

And any talk of willingness
And any talk of both feet in
And any talk of commitment
Leaves you running for the door

Why why do I try to change you try to?
Try to change you when you really don't
Want me to [...]

(Narcissus - Alanis Morissette)